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Forgive yourself.

We’re often taught to forgive others but sometimes we forget ourselves that we, too, need forgiveness. Not from someone else, but from within. Forgive yourself for the mistakes you’ve made. For the promises you broke to yourself. For the times you weren’t committed to your own growth. Forgive yourself even for the hurt you may have caused others. It’s a painful thing to be forgiven by God or by others, yet still carry guilt inside. When in truth, you should be the first to show yourself compassion and grace. Let it go... the guilt, the accusations, the weight of your past. Release it. Choose to forgive yourself. Just in case you're wondering how to forgive yourself... Below here are steps to forgive yourself: Admit what happened:  Be honest about your mistake don’t ignore it or exaggerate it. Take responsibility:  Accept what you did, but remember: you made a mistake but you are not the mistake. Feel it, don’t hide it:  Allow yourself to feel guilt, but don’t let it t...

The Journey with the Holy Spirit part 3

  Today we are reading another story about the encounter with the Holy Spirit, So I was in Sunday service at the church and we were singing this song that was about… I give you my all, all of my possessions… My wonderful Lord… please rule over me and direct me and the Lord was like REALLY ? For how long are you going to sing the same words without meaning them? How long are you going to praise me with your lips but without your hearts, how long are you going to sing/say that until there's a shift/real change in your life/attitude/decisions? I paused and I was like Holy Spirit is that you? Am I really hearing you? He was like I can't count how many times I've heard you people sing these songs… literally every week you're in the church asking me to work with you, to change you, saying you're surrendering your hearts but it's just lip service… As soon as you get out you forget what you were singing about… suddenly I remembered the scripture in Matthew 15:8 … which ...

The Journey with the Holy Spirit Part 2

  I have been walking with the Lord but for real everyday is a new lesson. So, there's this day I was living my day as usual and out of the blue I had a nudge in my spirit to pray for someone close to me. By that time I had that nudge, she was in an exam but I blushed it off and didn't care about it. Here is the thing that happened... I  heard the nudge, I thought of her specifically but I didn't do anything about it. (And the Holy Spirit has already communicated) So, later I came to learn that she had failed the exam on the last phase of the exam (By the time I heard the nudge, she was around the final phase of the exam) and hearing her side of story it was kind of unfair how she failed because basing what she did/how she responded she was supposed to pass. I immediately connected all dots and realized that it was the Holy Spirit who prompted me to pray for her because the enemy had aimed to steal her victory. Then the enemy came back to me to pin the blame on me... I star...

A Letter from my future self!

I have seen a lot of people writing letters to their younger self/future self but in my context... My future self wrote a letter to me(Funny right๐Ÿ˜‚)  Here is what she said: Hi Me! How are you?... I know you feel good(mostly) I am writing to you from the future, I know you think you are mature... you think you know everything that is there to know but little do you know that you have a long journey to go! I can't say you know nothing but compared to what's ahead... there's a lot my dear, Everyday has it's own lessons. First, I thank you for committing your ways to the Lord and trusting him with your journey though I think it's the Holy Spirit who did it for you but at least you obeyed him, Thanks! You did great in many things, decisions you took and journeys you had but please keep in mind to seek God's approval in everything ! You will meet different pathways requesting your wisdom and thoughtfulness before taking them because they will influence your life for...

The Essence of Man’s fall and Salvation!

There have been lot's of debates concerning why Adam sinned and everyone else gets to pay for it... Down below is a detailed story alongside Scriptures of what happened then and the need for a Savior(Jesus Christ). The best part of it is that this story has a good ending๐Ÿ˜Š... So, Let's dive in and get to the root of everything! ๐ŸŒฟ 1. Creation – Mankind’s Original Perfect State God created humans in His image and intended them to live in fellowship with Him. ๐Ÿ“– Genesis 1:27 “So God created mankind in his own image , in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.” ๐Ÿ“– Genesis 2:16-17 God commanded Adam not to eat from the tree of knowledge of good and evil. ๐Ÿ‘‰ Humanity was: Sinless Spiritually alive Living in direct communion with God ๐ŸŽ 2. The Fall – Sin Enters the World Adam and Eve disobeyed God , bringing sin into human nature. ๐Ÿ“– Genesis 3:6 Eve took the fruit and ate it , and gave some to Adam, who also ate. ๐Ÿ“– Romans 5:12 “ Sin entered the world thr...

The Journey with the Holy Spirit Part 1

  It's interesting how always the Holy Spirit is working especially on the things we didn't even know we had... "one wakes up in a light mood, clear in thoughts and just a few scenes, a familiar smell triggers old things that you didn't even know you had."  So, most of the times because we no longer feel things... we think they are over but little do we know they are dormant not gone.  Today I experienced something I usually heard from others but had never experienced before. I went somewhere and met this guy really smart, handsome and organized and he kind of showed interest In me and out of no where I felt angry deep down, bitterness covered me completely (which I don't even understand) because normally I'm not that kind of person...  My inner voice was saying Hhhum, another scandal is coming... handsome guys hurts people or he is just messing with you or he want to see how desperate I am, he wants to use you for fun or he's just conversing you ... h...

Life beyond the un checked Checklist!

Back then while we were ending 2025 I sat with myself and looked back at what I achieved and in that moment I didn't see any grand thing that I achieved in 2025 aside from Graduation. It took me far because I went mad at myself wondering how could a year this long end like this... a lot on my annual list was unchecked. But a few days ago while I was preparing for my birthday... I looked back at the memories (Photos & videos) that I took for the past whole year and I realized I achieved a lot!  Only because most of them were not written in my annual target, the enemy tried to trick me to thinking I achieved less (God did less) ...  But now I'm grateful for what the Lord has done for me, my family and my friends (because we're in this together ๐Ÿ˜‚), I'm grateful for my relationship with the lord, I learnt to hear his voice clearly and obey it (though it wasn't easy & I'm still on this journey ๐Ÿคฆ), I'm grateful for all the people who came in my life the ...